this is basically me ranting about how abnormal i am.
these last couple of months have been something. its been an up and down spiral of happy days, sad days, and just pointless ones. basically, i failed my last grade and am retaking it this year which is very sad for me to do knowing that im so stupid to even fail a grade. i was very very depressed last year and i am doing a lot better considering i am retaking my grade online, but there is still this empty void in me. i have been a lot happier and all, but i still feel like a failure and i still feel very lonely. i have no friends except 5 people on instagram who i have been friends with for about a year now but our interests have changed a lot and we really cant communicate like we used to. i’ll video call them once in a while but its just not the same. so hypothetically i have 0 friends. i lost all my real life friends because they pulled some stupid shit AND i moved from that school. people say they are lonely when they have at least 2 friends but i actually have 0 fucking friends except for my dogs and my family :(. another problem i have that makes me more of a fuck up is that i get so lonely to the point where i will literally get obsessed with a famous person who doesnt even really know i exist, and the bad part of it is that i will literally have conversations with a picture of them like its a real person, i will talk about the person 24/7 etc. i also get upset when they are upset and i will feel like they are rejecting me when ive only met them once and they barely even talked to me, i will cry for hours listening to love songs/breakup songs relating them to my fake relationships with celebrities. i know i do that because i am very lonely and i have never had a bf/gf, so i will resort to pretending to have a relationship with a celeb im infatuated with.
something to add to my toxic obsessions are that i have been spending almost every penny i have on seeing the artists im obsessed with. no, not just local concerts, ones OUT OF STATE!!! its seriously turned to a addiction. ive been entering every single radio show contest for tickets, i get CRUSHED everytime i cant see the band in another state. when i meet the artists i feel so happy when they smile at me, hug me, tell me they love me. and thats because nobody but my family will ever do that for me. i have extreme social anxiety and i have for about 7 years, i cant go outside because im scared i will see a kid from my old school, im scared i will be kidnapped, and thats the reason i cant go out and make friends. because im scared of the outside world unless its for a concert or going out to eat my feelings away. i really wish i knew why i was so abnormal. ive never really had friends and ive always had anxiety so ive been obsessing over random people for like 7 years straight.
can somebody PLEASE tell me whats wrong with me???