So everybody probably knows by now…fiancé left…she’s done with me…she’s not coming back, and she was truly everything to me…
I grew up in a broken home. Mom was and still is a guilt tripping alcoholic, dad was absent for so long, had a string of abusive step fathers, and all the while mom pushed me to the side.
I was raised believing I’m a genius. That everything comes naturally to me. But as I got older, my mental illness started to rear it’s ugly demonic head…I ended up dropping out of high school, getting my equivalency, and going into and promptly dropping out of college…
I dated my first girlfriend for four years, in a toxic abusive relationship that was kept secret from our families. It got so bad that she would cut herself and send photos to me, saying things like look what you made me do…
I broke my fist against a wall when this ex came into my work with the new boyfriend that she’d cheated on me with…this injury resulted in a $3000 dollar surgery and such intense physical pain, that I’d perpetually vomit. I couldn’t eat, so I couldn’t take my painkillers, so I couldn’t feel better.
Enter, marijuana. I started smoking to help my stomach and ease my pain. If you’ll believe it, with my broken hand, my mom would grind my weed up for me. She’d let me smoke on our back porch all day every day.
Eventually, weed ruled my life. I would hit six or seven or eight dabs a day. Spend hundreds of dollars a week.
That started to change when I met my ex fiancé. She pushed me to be a better person, to become who I knew I could be.
She was my everything. And my addictive personality, my mental illness, and my absolute lack of real relationship experience resulted in me completely disregarding her past traumas and her feelings. I let my desire for escapism trump her importance to me in my life.
And now she’s gone.
It’s been such a long road to get to where I am. But it feels like the road has been a steep decline into Hell.
Nothing means anything to me anymore. All there seems to be is pain. All there ever was, was pain. All there ever will be, is pain.
I’ll be alone forever. I’ll hurt, forever. And a part of me believes I deserve it.
It hurts so much. I don’t know what to do. I think constantly of suicide. I look at my bottle of antidepressants and I think “how many would I have to take?”
I’m in the absolute darkest place of my life. And it feels like it’s only gotten darker and darker from the beginning to now.
When will it ever end…when will I get better…when will all of my pain subside, and When will I find some kind of real happiness…
God fucking damn it, it hurts so very much…