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It’s to bad that there are people who don’t have the respect to have the ability to digest what you just explained. I haven’t cried myself to sleep in a while but I cried myself to sleep tonight. I just realized that the person who claimed to love me and PROMISED to not brake my heart, the person who I truly wanted to marry and spend my life with basically GHOSTED me. I got dumped after 18 months just before Christmas and I was never even spoken to again. I’m far from perfect and I was transparent from day one. Yes I made mistakes but who doesn’t? I’m one of the people that have had a hard time with the disease. What I wonder is if I would have been dumped if I had cancer or Heart disease??? A disease is a disease. I’m on the adventure of a life time and I swore I would be laying here tonight with her in my arms.
Thank you for being so honest with us. Break-ups are absolutely gutting. All of the plans you had for the future and everything you worked towards in the relationship is torn out from under you. Not to mention, the person that you loved so much now isn’t there for you. The person who you’ve gone to with every struggle is now not there to help you through this one. You’re left to grow on your own and that growth can be painful. I feel your struggles. I’ve been in the same situation as you, and it hurts so much to grieve a relationship. I envisioned my future with my ex girlfriend and when that possibility went away it was so hard to reframe my future ideas and find solace in the fact that I was not in a relationship anymore.
Transparency in a relationship is so important, and something that many people overlook. Openness and honestly is a key to a healthy relationship, and it’s awesome to hear that you are confident in transparency. This level of transparency is important in every aspect of life, and you’re proving that right now by opening up here! Thank you for bearing your pain and telling us about your struggles here. It takes so much courage to talk about our monsters publicly, and I have so much respect for you doing so. If you’d like to talk deeper about your situation or how you are feeling, we are always here for you. I’m glad you are finding your way to process the emotions, but I know that can come with many hardships. Continue talking about your monsters because that is how we strip them of their power.
Thank you. You are so loved and so appreciated. Holdfast- we believe in you.
I am so sorry that happened to you. I am so glad you are here and shared your story. It’s a big step in facing situations that leave us feeling confused, angry and hurt. Having our trust shattered can be devastating, leaving us wondering how it could possibly happen, questioning ourselves, reliving the past in search of answers without any closure. Grieving a relationship is a difficult process but you will get through it. You allowed yourself to feel and face your emotions by crying yourself to sleep and that can be a huge release. Talking about it can help sort through the complicated emotions and put you on a path towards healing. It hurts to be betrayed and it might not be easy to get over, but you can overcome this! There is a plan and purpose for you that you may not understand just yet, but you will as you continue to talk through your hurt and heal one step at a time. I’m praying that you find closure and peace as you continue to work through your pain and open up. We are here for you! You are loved and not alone!
Thank you for reaching out, that is not an easy thing to do. I hear your voice and recognize your pain. It is so tiring after pouring all of your heart, time, and effort into a person for them to break up with you. It’s hard to understand what others think, why they do certain things, or not understand what you explained.
If there’s one thing I can say with confidence to you, it’s that you are not alone in this struggle and hurt that you face. One of the hardest things I’ve had to learn, and practice, was patience. Although waiting and patience may suck, it’s reassuring to know that the right person is out there somewhere that will appreciate your efforts.
You are so strong my friend. Keep shining your bright light, and never stop persevering.
