It’s been a while I’ve had a lot of stuff going on in my life and kinda have out grown this community while I was away I had a lot of stuff happen I’ve been in and out of a relationship had my therapist kick me off her work load cuz I was “too difficult” ive been moving past all that and just keeping up pace with life Im seeing someone new and keeping up with friends and found family i ventured out on a road trip with a bunch of online friends i thought id never see and just over all have been excited to be not in the oddly self harming field of therapy I found my self in I’ve found it far easier to cope with things when around people I actually connect with and who understand my experiences also its pride month and this month means ALOT to me cuz ive lost partners do to queerphobia ive experienced plenty my self but im here cuz the ones before me fought for me to be here and ill do the same for the next generations as things look scary this year around the world I know I have people to rely on I dont know how often ill be around this forum anymore
Hi @Derpplup,
It’s okay, you don’t have to post if you feel uncomfortable. HeartSupport and I are always here to support you even if you are gone for several months. That’s unprofessional therapist, they should helping you with relationship issues. Relationship aren’t going to be perfect but your therapist should support during difficult times. You made some progress of meeting new people besides of self-harm. I’m super proud of you.
I’m super sorry for you past partners that didn’t support being a queer. I also lost ton of my friends due to being pansexual and nonbinary. However, my family and cousins were super supportive of me coming out like a few years ago. As I got older, I recognized that if someone doesn’t love the way I am then there is no point being friends or partner with someone. My new friends support me being gay and I hope your partner in the future loves the way you are.