Hi everyone, just another update and asking for some advice!! I had a relapse in restrictive eating in may and decided to get better in june, and it’s been going so well, the first couple of months were a bit rough but I’ve been able to mostly work with and get rid of that little negative voice about eating, I’ve started to appreciate my body more and I even find myself looking in the mirror and liking what I see, it’s a very very nice feeling!!
I did have a major sh relapse but that’s all taken care of now, I’d guess it was due to the stress of getting better from ed stuff, but that was a good few months ago as well and I’ve been doing way better mentally and with sh!
I’ve started working with a therapist, we aren’t the best fit so I’ll probably switch but he’s given me some great tools and good steps to take and new things to try, so I’ve been more outgoing, aka going to stores alone and stuff like that!! (even went to a pride parade, how cool is that!!?!?)
The only thing I’m encountering is being nervous about having happy thoughts. they feel wrong to have for some reason, like the fact that I’m appreciating my body even with weight gain and being transmasc/nonbinary, I feel like I shouldn’t like the way I look but I do and it’s not that much of a challenge, just a bit of a hang-up I’m having. I would describe my gender more specifically as fluid, I’m sort of always in the middle but usually leaning towards masculine feelings and styles, It feels odd for me to appreciate my body despite the femininity even though I’m literally nonbinary and gender is constructed and all that.
Also, making friends is hard, but im trying!! how to put myself out there when I don’t go to public school? I wish you could just make friends like how little kids do and just, walk up to someone and be like “hey ur cool let’s be friends!” but alas, the world is not so simple.
Anyways! Any tips for the whole “positive thoughts = bad” thing would be coolio, but other than that not much to add, just a happy good update!!
(I always get so longwinded here, thanks for reading xd, im bad at social interaction but ill try to reply!)