Man it’s been a while since I’ve been on here. I’ve been feeling really awful recently and I think I just need to vent. I guess I’ll start with the obvious thing I’m upset about. Yesterday, a family friend had a birthday party so the usual people (other families and their kids) were invited. I hang out with this one guy who’s my age (he’s the son of the birthday guy) and at first I thought he’d be a great friend. He reached out to me after my breakup and thought he was really encouraging. But I had a few “gut feelings” that he isn’t the kind of person I want to be friends with. I don’t want to say he’s not a good person, maybe our values just don’t align. He started talking badly about a co-worker at his new job… I don’t want to get into details but this has really rubbed me the wrong way. It made me think that he will do the same thing to me. I avoided him at a previous party, and that was fine because he had his other group of friends there. I was pretty tired yesterday so I didn’t even want to socialize but he started a game of charades with me and the people around our age group, including my siblings, and that’s how I ended up talking to him. I think I’m going to interact less with him. He’s done nice things for me, but I just don’t feel completely safe with him at this point.
In other news… there hasn’t been much going on in my life. I haven’t been drawing or doing art. It’s upsetting me a lot. I’ve been trying to make small sketches of ideas and trying to finish this one piece I’ve been working on, but I just lose motivation. I hope I get back into it soon.
I’ve also been feeling sad about being single. I hate putting it that way because it feels like I’m desperate to date. But it’s more like, I wish I had someone to love. I wish I had someone to laugh with. I have a crush on someone I can’t be with and it feels so childish but it hurts a lot. They make me laugh, and I’m just genuinely attracted to them. I feel like I’ve lived too much in my daydreams with them that fantasy is better than reality. I get so sad when I’m hit with the reality that I don’t know if I can find someone I can love and loves me back and treats me right. I’m kind of terrified of dating. I don’t know how to meet people or even ask them out… I don’t know if anyone would ask me out. Even if they did I’m worried that they’re not the right person for me or they’ll hurt me. I dunno. It feels so stupid to me because I’ve put this expectation on myself that I’m okay on my own, but I do miss being in a relationship. This is all so complicated to me. I never really talked to anyone about these feelings.
Thanks for reading as always <3 I feel bad about coming back here and just dumping all this but I really trust that I can talk about this here.