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My doubt’s are thet I’ll never be a normal person or a straight person like everyone else because I don’t have a relationship with my father and that I’ll never be something in life I’ll just be a waste if air:cry:
Hi there. Thank you for reaching out. I’m so sorry that you’re feeling this way. There are so many people out there who don’t have relationships with their fathers for various reasons, and it’s completely okay. Sometimes, it’s just not meant to be. That doesn’t mean you’re an abnormal person; it might just be out of your control.
You will go on to do amazing things. You’re not a waste of air. You mean something to the people around you.
I hope that you start to feel better soon and that you start to realize just how amazing you are. Sending you all the love!
hi there,
thank you for coming on here. tumultuous family relationships are not easy, especially with a parent. although family dynamics are difficult, it does not mean you will not be normal. we can create our own relationships with people who value us and who encourage our growth as human beings. you are not a waste of air. you are in this world and you can contribute to it, even if it is in simple ways. sometimes that is the best way to be something, is to do small things to make other people happy. you have some time, you will figure it out. the people on HeartSupport are here if you need anything.
sending you love <3
-daniela
Hey friend, you are not alone. Sometimes I think it’s one of the most “normal” things to feel, that we aren’t normal. Sending you some love.
Satty
I can relate to not having a relationship with my father as well and that’s a tough wound to carry. Thank you for sharing this. You are so worth it. It’s okay to be a little dysfunctional, And it’s okay to hurt and to grieve.
Hi there,
I’m really sorry you8 feel this way but I want you to know that not having a traditional relationship with your father does not define your worth as a person or you are future.
You are not a waste. Everyone’s life journey is different and the struggles and obstacles you go through don’t define you or your worth.
Healing takes a long time and it’s okay to have doubts and feel hopeless, but I just want you to know that you matter and that you have a lot of people that care about you.
you are not a waste, and your life has a purpose regardless of what you feel like sometimes.
sending love and support,