New Year's thoughts

The latter half of 2023 has been a wild ride for me. So much has changed in the past few months after I got on this website. I’ll highlight some of them here:

First, I’ve finally let go of my trauma and let the world know about it. I’ve finally let other people try and help me with the problems I was dealing with at the time. It feels like just a few days ago I had this life changing moment. I still feel like I’ve got a long way to go, but I appreciate these first steps.

Second, I’m starting to socialize again, after 8 years of being isolated and alone. I’m starting to talk with some of my acquaintances more often, and I’ve got my hopes up for getting an actual friend. It’s honestly so nice to have something like this after craving it for so long.

And third, I’m feeling much better emotionally and psychologically. Now that I have a place to go to when I’m down, I’m getting a bit more self-confidence about the future. With all these needed changes, I feel as though it will be steadily going uphill from here.

I cannot thank everyone for helping me on my journey so far. It’s incredible how a few words of comfort and encouragement can change so much about a person. I’ve seen people here come and go, either as simple users or active volunteers, just know that all of you are appreciated by me. I appreciate your efforts on the platform, be it by offering help or simply venting out your problems. It’s just as daunting to come up with helpful replies as it is to write your struggles down for everyone to see. I respect all of that effort.

But for now, I hope you all have a nice end of the year. 2023 may have had it’s highs and lows, but another year has passed once more. Time still marching on, the world still spinning, the people changing. I hope you all had a pleasant time here on the website.
May the stars guide your path.

Sincerely me,
Cora.

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Thank you very much for sharing your story, also the encouragement.

I’m very glad you’re here!

Hey there @Cora :smiling_face:

First of all, happy new year to you! I hope this year will be the best! :confetti_ball:

This post was truly moving. It’s clear you’ve been on an incredible journey in 2023, and your reflections on the better part of 2023, a transformation for want of a better word, was incredibly important. Releasing or confronting trauma, and finding alternative or healthier coping mechanisms takes courage. This post is inspiring because you’ve been incredibly open. My hope is that it inspires others to reflect on 2023. Embracing vulnerability is no easy task, but in doing that, you’ve allowed yourself to receive support. That shows strength.

Your self-discovery era is definitely shining through. 8 years of isolation is tough, but you’ve allowed yourself the freedom. Socialising again after all that time will no doubt be incredibly challenging, but it will also be really rewarding. Your aspirations for new friendships are incredibly beautiful, and I do believe that this will come true for you.

Your mental health taking a positive turn is a massive achievement. You’ve built a support system, and found solace in HeartSupport, which is great stuff. This new confidence you have uncovered is we,-deserved, a true reward for the hard work you’ve put into your recovery!

Your appreciation, acknowledgment and gratitude for the amazing community around you is wonderful to see. Not many people have humility, but you have it. Your post is an important reminder to us all, that simple words of encouragement and comfort can go a long way into supporting someone. Something we must all take with us into 2024. The respect you have for those in HS is beautiful!

Whilst 2024, will have its challenges, ultimately, your post gives me (and others hopefully) a newfound hope, recognising that ,I’ve has its ups and downs. Your reflection of the evolving nature of the world is beautiful.

I do indeed agree, that the stars will guide our path and light the way for 2024 to be great. Your journey, marked by growth, healing, and newfound connections, is a testament to the strength within and the transformative power of shared experiences. May the coming year bring continued progress, joy, and fulfillment as you navigate the ongoing adventure of life :blush:

All the very best for 2024!

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