Lost my loving Mom and Dad within 2 years plus my pets passed away . I am single and cry often. I miss my parents tremendously. Lived with them my entire life. My siblings are not emotionally available and my eldest sister is very critical and condescending. Sadly, my friends are selfish and I believe they get tired of me talking about my grief and losses. People are dealing with their own issues. I contemplated sucide becsuse no one closest to me really cares or understands …
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I’m so sorry for your losses, friend. It’s so hard when death is so overwhelmingly present in our life and no one seems to listen to us. Here’s a voice reply for you (link >): Ost my loving Mom and Dad within 2 years plus my pets passed away - HeartSupport / Support - heartsupport - 19 July 2024 | Loom - You are not alone. You belong. 