Idk how to start but my partner and I have been kind of going though the roommate stage. It’s been over two years since I have had a serious convo about our relationship and what is wrong and what we can do to fix the issues we have had. I have grown to not have theses conversations w my partner due to the fact that I don’t know how to express myself correctly (usually i cry or I starts just blaming) and also how my partner replies (says “idk what to say”/ or silence ) or his infamous line ( I just can’t be like that anymore )Now I know that sound fd up but I am one to not give up easily so maybe I can just move on but I am willing to try one more time . I miss being treated like a girlfriend, I miss being loved . The only time (tmi) I do feel some sort of affection is when we have sex but that usually is when we’re half asleep and that’s it. No passion really just reach climax for both and cuddle after. I don’t try either to be more romantic or passionate due to the fear of being rejected but I am willing to try with him. I just would like some advice on how to talk to him but not seem nagging or insecure . I want him to see that we’re in this together not that I am attacking him w issues . Any advice is welcomed please 
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