tw self harm
i relapsed, like badly actually, super super badly. i bought blades for it, then i used those blades and i made like this mental checklist of all the things i needed to ‘achieve’ before i can stop and now i feel like i cant stop without doing everything and idk what to do about it because i know how this goes, i can feel myself getting that mindset of addiction again, making excuses, bargaining with myself, shit like that. i literally threw my blades out into an outdoor trash can then fished them out like an hour ago because i was so desperate, and i keep having these moments of clarity before i go back to needing and wanting. i feel like i need emergency mental help, like going to a mental hospital, but i cant because theyre all too expensive and theres none near me, and the hospital services are very very bad. im so so scared, i dont want to do this again but i already feel like i cant live without it. im so scared.
how do i stop this without help from anyone at all in my personal life? my mom doesnt know, my dad doesnt know, my friends dont know, no one knows about this relapse and no one will know about this relapse. its just gonna be me fixing this and i dont know how to do it alone, please help