Hi, I’m new here, sorry if I do anything wrong.
I’ve been becoming more and more of a jerk recently.
I ghost friends, and when texting someone becomes too exhausting I block them, even though they’re nice. I always make mean jokes about everyone around me, and don’t stop until they get mad or even cry, and I suddenly realise what I was doing. I feel so detached from everyone around me, like when I see someone crying or hurting I dont feel bad at all and find it tiring trying to look sad while I comfort them.
My friends tell me their secrets because they trust I can keep them, but truth is I forget their secrets and I forget general knowledge about them to begin with, like their siblings etc. I just don’t bother enough to remember anyone, and there are some that I completely forget, even their names.
My grandpa died recently and my mom and little brothers were all crying, I wasn’t. I couldn’t bring myself to cry no matter how much I tried. I’m starting to question if I’m human. I loved my grandpa, so why weren’t I crying? Why did I make excuses to not sit with my family when they were mourning, because it felt awkward, and scrolled through my phone like nothing happened? I could hear my mom crying and my dad comforting her in the other room while I’m just scrolling through youtube shorts.
At the same time I have anger issues and cry over the littlest, dumbest issues. Whenever something doesn’t go my way, I get in a bad mood, yelling at my little brothers when they talk to me. Tears keep rolling downband I end up crying myself to sleep, over literally nothing.
I’m only 15, and I’m pretty sure this is not normal at all for a girl my age. I wasn’t always like this. I know I’m a bad person and that I need to change, but most of those things, I do while not even aware. I don’t want to grow and become an adult or start a family or whatever when my personality is like this. But I just don’t know what to do. Even at this moment I feel no sympathy for all those I might’ve hurt, no matter how much I try.