So, next year I’ll attend a language academy in a country on the other end of the world. I’ve been to this country before, for 3 weeks and only after that I’ve decided to give it a try.
While I’m proud of myself for doing something I really want to do, even if it’s scary, I can’t help but worry about so many things already.
I guess first and foremost, I’m scared of my mental health getting worse during these 3 months. The country I will be in isn’t exactly the best in terms of taking mental health problems seriously and from what I’ve been told, their psychiatrists are rather on the bad side. While I’ll try to bring medication from home, I’m unsure if I can bring a supply for 3 whole months… and if I can’t, I’m even more scared of having to see a psychiatrist there and them not prescribing me the medication I need. Going cold turkey on the medication I take is horrible. I once forgot to take it for 4 days and felt like electric shocks were soaring through my body + I felt dizzy. During the second half of my stay I’ve also decided to book an Airbnb, as I do want some privacy. I just hope I won’t only stay in the Airbnb and actually still go outside on my own. Not only to see things like museums or so, but just for taking walks or hopefully meeting up with new friends I make there.
The second thing I’m scared of is being lonely. I can handle being alone, but also as part of getting out of my comfort zone, I do want to meet new people and hang out with them. Now, I know I’ll most likely meet people at the academy and I’m also going to stay at a guesthouse for 1,5 months. I guess I’m just terrified that people won’t like me. I am super introverted and more of an observer around people I don’t know that well yet. Once I’ve warmed up to them, I also open up more and my actual personality comes through. I’m scared though that no one will take that chance on me and just writes me off as arrogant or weird. I know all I can do for now is wait and see, but the thought of getting lonely there isn’t nice.
Third thing I’m worried about… I’m a very picky eater. I’d say almost chronically picky, as my brain will give me full on anxiety attacks or makes me feel like throwing up, if I just think of trying new foods. Even if it smells and looks delicious and has stuff in it I already know and like. In the 3 weeks I survived somewhat on foods that I deemed safe, but it wasn’t a big variety of meals. I’m worried about developing deficits, which would then probably affect my mental health and therefore puts me back to problem number 1. I want to give myself a goal to at least try a very simple dish, but that’s what I did for those 3 weeks as well and I didn’t manage.
So yeah… while I’m extremely excited to go and to do this on my own, which is a huge step for me, I also have all these worries. I know that I won’t know how things will go until I’m actually there, living daily life and stuff. Maybe I’m stressing over this way too much and in the end I’ll have a great time and even try some new foods. I hope so at least.
Sorry for the long ramble. I needed to get this off my chest, I guess.