I can’t handle much mentally, emotionally and physically currently.
My world is in a constant state of shambles in turn leads to everything within and of me being triggered.
I’m a far gone mess.
I’m too far gone.
Preparing for a new neighbour and watching the existing one empty their residence …has me in shambles and extremely anxious…
My foster mom’s sister isn’t doing too well…She’s rapidly fading away. Breaks my heart to hear that even being age 102 she is truly disheartened and disappointed with her quality of life now…Her hearings just about gone, and her retention span and cognitive abilities have plummeted. Breaks my heart to hear mom repeatedly tell her it’s okay that she has to repeat things over the phone with her…that her sister is severely depressed and is aware of what’s happening…Breaks my heart that she still is clinging to life and the optimism that things will get better…that she wishes she could hear and be independent and functional as she use to be.
Mom isn’t doing too well herself. The dementia has worsened. Her doctor in her chart online has indicated that there is slight hearing loss, memory was better last year but this year it has gotten worse.
I am aware of these things. I often have to repeat things and have to simplify words and sentences in attempts for her to understand. She repeatedly asks me the same things multiple times a day. .as she forgets. I also deal with her accusations multiple times a week that I am putting things in her room because she is insistent that she’s never seen and never had the amount of things she has. (She has had much more over the years). No matter how much I remove to try and comfort her. …it doesn’t work…and in a day or so She’s back to accusing.
Still am heartbroken over the ex that I joined this site originally to vent about. It’s been 4 years and I still miss him and think of him often. Even though he was no good to or for me…at least it was somebody.
I was recently ghosted by a neighbour who for 8 months pretended to be into me, that they cared for, loved me, and wanted a future with me. 8 months constant communication and them abruptly ghosting me. Last time they were in communication was a month
ago. I should have known better. What person would ever want me genuinely? Probably nobody. I have nothing to offer, and am damaged beyond repair.
I don’t know why I do these things to myself. Allow myself to get swept up and participate in such nonsense. I know quickly that they aren’t coming with pure intentions and will just discard me soon. .even though I know …I still allow myself to be used…
I allow myself to be used, just to feel…even if it’s all for pretend…
Anyways, I am finding it difficult to get over them…especially since living in close proximity, having seen multiple people making out with them, having seen them completely unaffected and walking around smiling and genuinely happy.
The last time I saw them, they told me that they were excited to start a life with me and that they would see me the next day. Soon after they left, they must have blocked me…I called to see what time, and went straight to voicemail.
Oh well. I am unfit for most type of involvement with others. …none the less, I just want to be loved, cared for, and finally mean something to someone…
Guess it really doesn’t matter in the long run…our individual existence will soon be forgotten anyway.
Still very depressed about two beings of life that I was close to passing away around 3 years…almost one year for one. I cry alot.
I have been stressed, anxiety ridden, depressed, and sleep deprived. I have little to no relief…even night is loud. It’s either the racoons being very loud at night. Daytime it’s the squirrels that run around under my floorboards and in the walls to my room gaining entrance from holes in the house, daytime workers fixing up neighbour ING residences, the hustle and bustle of people outside, my mom, and disruptions by her family.
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My mom has been playing depressing to me songs …streaming them via youtube all day.
“Smile” and “the impossible dream” are some of the saddest songs ive ever heard in life.
I have daily depression all of my life, but the weather triggers me when it changes seasons.
I cry alot and pretend I’m happy… which causes me to be further depressed and cry some more.
I’m tired of existence and life.