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This might sound weird but I wish my ex wife could do a dis track like this on me. I know I wasn’t perfect but I never understood how or why she left me when I needed her most and the only thing I could glean from our limited interaction 7 years after the divorce is that she resented me for a lot of things she never expressed while we were together. At least I can come to terms with it and deal with it if she comes correct like this instead of being left in the dark.
I feel like such separation would be difficult for me, this part of very little to closure. Some sort of untold perception or emotions not expressed as for what really happened, or maybe clearing out the picture of some unnecessary assumptions or unknows. It had to be difficult on you, i am sorry to hear that it didn’t helped you to end this chapter of your journey.
Recently figured that each of us go through these things with different pace, and that kinda helped me to rela, to give others space. Maybe this case you wanted to get more of support, of help and she was in different state. At the end I am glad you sorted your troubles and came to terms, great to see you are going forward despite the pain from past. I cant tell to much of you story as it would be ignorant from my end. But i know that we all are in this together and that sometimes we can start just with ourselves. Once we get a bit of relax, a bit of distance, perspective, it is getting easier - especially for me, recently. The more “ok, whats the bigger picture, whats the bigger plan here?” questions, the easier for me it goes…
You know… there is a song by Audioslave that i just started to play on repeat…“Be yourself”… i almost cried how simple some of these words are and yet Chris Cornell send this message in a way that hits deep
I am wishing you all the best, to be yourself!!! To keep believing in what is right for you
Matt
