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This song makes me cry cause makes me think about how this one chick who made me happy and was there for me and all the things i wanted but hadn’t felt in long time came back cause of her but then left the state and i cant see her anymore we weren’t a couple but i planned on asking her out at some point and that hurt me but i accepted that i wouldn’t see her again so months pass and i forget about her but then again recently started thinking about her again and i listen to the last song i heard when i was hanging out with her and made me cry thinking about her this song now does same thing cause has been awhile.
It is very hard with music isnt it? any song can bring back any memory, sometimes it can remind you of the happiest moment in your life, your happiest day or just as easily it can remind you of the worst moment or the saddest day you can recall. Sometimes its the tune and sometimes the lyrics say everything that is in your mind and it is as if the person who is singing is with you at that moment and knows everything you are going though and made it into your song. That is how powerful music can be and that is why you can get so emotional about a situation upon hearing that song. I am so sorry that this friendship/relationship didnt work out but that does not mean you don’t have an amazing relationship in your future, I am sure you have some wonderful things ahead, embrace these emotions that you have, they show your sensitivity, caring and kind side. I wish you all the very best. Lisa. x
Getting attached and starting having feelings for someone we spend time with that also make us happy can really leave a mark when for some reason they have to leave and our plans are destroyed. I know that painful feeling.
And it’s normal to remember her again after some time and to let those tears come, because she meant a lot to you, but you can still cherish those moments together, and maybe she was not the one for you, or maybe she will be in the future, who knows. But there is still hope for a bright and loving future for you.