Last year, I posted about how the conditions in question had deeply affected me negatively due to how I sought reassurance in extremely unhealthy manners (Retriggered P.O.C.D. & Z.O.C.D). By looking at and acting on zoophilic pornography when I was a minor and checking for groinal responses to non-explicit mental images of my cousins and ex-friend’s dog – going so far as to perform those checks with the same motions that I used to masturbate (without the pleasure and orgasm to make it masturbation) – to desperately make sure I was neither a pedophile nor a zoophile at the age of eighteen/nineteen after realizing I was viewing characters who were not as old as I thought they were and less anthropromorphic than I thought they were in a sexual manner in spite of how I thought I had put a stop to previous unhealthy habits, I ensured that I would live with an intense guilt which has only worsened since then.
After living with this guilt for as long as I have, I have begun to feel like a predator who has managed to keep their horrid crimes hidden away from the rest of the world, except for a few people, namely, some friends, as well as my abusive father, whom I still live with. The latter party was told about this harrowing experience because I both felt that I needed to confess that I had done what I did to someone and could not trust anyone else. This mistake has caused me to fear that they will one day decide to tell other individuals about my actions, particularly my aunts and uncles, who will, in turn, decide to contact the authorities in the hopes that I will be arrested.
Thoughts of telling my aunts and uncles about what I did myself have cropped up, though I am hesitant to believe that they are not inner pushes to seek reassurance from close-minded members of an extended family that I have separated myself from as much as I can who excuse abuse and prejudice. These thoughts have also appeared whenever I consider reaching out to a professional who is capable of treating my conditions, as I fear having to tell them about this all and being treated like a criminal for struggling with mental illnesses again (I Acted Terribly in February of This Year and Still Do Not Know How to Deal With My Guilt and Shame).
Efforts to attend therapy sessions through BetterHelp, volunteer at an animal shelter as a form of exposure and response prevention, utilize grounding techniques (Feeling Unable to Deal With My O.C.D), and distance myself from others as much as possible have not worked. Although I am awaiting a response from a psychiatrist’s office, I feel that I have not done enough to handle this all, that there is nothing that can be done to handle this all, and that I have somehow failed those who have tried to help me handle this all.